Black Authors Expo...

I recently attended the black authors expo. I went as a guest of my mom's... yep mom wrote a book .. but you all knew that already. In case you didn't the book is titled "Reflections of a quiet storm". It's a christian fiction novel.. based on true events. Quick read and very relate able. I'm proud of my mom,, she is also working on her 2nd novel.... stay tuned.

unSmize...

Smh...
recently I did a photo shoot w/ this photographer  (& I think I'll use that term loosely) and all I can say is Jesus wept...Definitely was not doing any smizing (smiling w/ my eyes) on this shoot whatsoever.

It's true when you have a attitude or some type of distraction while shooting it WILL always show in your photos.. words to the wise: no matter what or whomever may have you pissed off or put you in a bad mood while on set.. take a min, clear your thoughts and move on. The last thing you want are weak shots after a long days work. Christian (bf) once told me "A negative
moment will only last so long, but a photo can last 4ever." .. very true Chris.. to sum it up, dont let your temporary attitude fxckup you lifetime image.

ultimately this shot had potential to be so much more, but in my eyes it's just "ohk" #Kanyeshrug

Members Only...

The term "Mile High Club" refers to two people engaging in sexual activity (sexual intercourse) at an altitude of no less than 5,280 ft (a mile high above the earth) in an airplane.

This is funny to me because 1 night Jojo was on the phone w/ _____ & he asked her: "are you a member of the mile high club?" both me and her were oblivious..Lol thinking it was some rich members only type shxt... (embarrassed face) so once he explained what it actually was we both fell out laughing.. and no neither of us are "members"....yet.  :-D  

Lqi. (Laughing Quietly Inside)
yeah members only is right... I wonder how many of my homies
are members of "exclusive club" ? (no judgement) To my surprise there are actually rules to follow as a member and they have a whole site for info, stories, & a how to join instructional video... interesting.
check it out: http://www.milehighclub.com/

I will say this.. 1st off, you have 2 be comfortable w/ your sexuality.. I mean overall straight up and down into it to sneak off to a bathroom or secluded row or.. whatever in a plane amongst total strangers and have sex 2nd, be willing to go 2 jail or probably get some type of fine if caught because i'm sure it's illegal. 3rd trust whomever, or persons your engaging in initiation with..


Would I?....
perhaps.

Bestfriend vs Boyfriend...

UUGGGHH!
- A girl and a guy can't be "bestfriends"...
- oh yo bestfriend huh? mmhmm
- when yall break up? how long yall was together?

HEARD IT ALL!
This has been and I am convinced will be an ongoing headache!
It never fails... I always get the 3rd degree or some shxt about my bestfriend. Not only do I hear it because he's a boy.. and in the relationship world that shxt just doesn't fly 99% of the time. On top of that I have a tattoo of his name on my ankle. (adding gas to the fire) It's no secret me and my bf are close, and we have always been that way since we were young.. i really don't find any difference between our friendship than i do w/ my female bestfriend other than gender.  


-Bestfriend-
The one that gives you thier shoulder to lean on, laughs at and with you, lifts you up when your down, supporter. ..I went to the shop and got his name tattooed on my ankle at my own free will. No one held a gun to my head.. i didn't lose a bet or any of that other bs... nor did I ask him to get mines.. I love my bestfriend.  He got me through some days where had he not been there 4 me, i really can't say what i would have done,... or where i would have ended up.. I thank God to have had such a good friend when i was so young & still the friend ship remains.. 

                                                       VS.


-Boyfriend-
Your like, your love, your interest and supporter, friend, lover, and heart... Of course no man is going to jump for joy about seeing another mans name on his girl. OK i get that.. i understand that, but what i don't understand is the lack of trust that goes behind it.
Or more than that the whole need to measure up to "his" standards. If I'm with you I'm with you.. had I wanted to be with "him" I'm sure it would have happened by now.

                                                      =Equals=


-Headache-
1) ok so you love him.. you say you love me but you don't have my name tatted.
2) get it covered.
3) If yall were just bestfriends, why you get it in the 1st place?
4) I don't like him "you don't know him" I don't need to know him.
..... .. ... . & all the other bs!


-Resolution-
it all falls down to TRUST, if you trust that there is nothing more between the two friends that just that. A friendship.. then the issue should be solved just that simple.
I know sometimes you have a girl who's "bf" happens to be her ex and vise versa, so i can't say I blame dudes for being suspect but damn... I mean don't play yourself, if you know they more then some damn friends then stick around a bee bozo the clown if you want to... 

New Photos... (UNedited)

Droping these off...
see I have flaws too... these are unedited..
(the real me) . . .might use them for something..
might not.. fun shoot tho.

bittersweet..

JoJo sent me these 4rm earlier this year...
we had sooo much fun that night.. lmao I looked a mess.
haha oh well good times... although bittersweet... because 1 of those friends
in the photo is no longer in the loop,, & now a frenemy...#kanyeshrug

Dear Inbox...

Dear Inbox, ....

The team & I have decided that we no longer want to see these 7 deadly sins of text EVER! again.
                                                                                                                 -Thank you

1) Send me some pix
-this has to be top of the list... please never ever again.. asking someone, no TELLING someone to
send you pix is annoying, especially when you barley know the person, just met them, or haven't spoke w/ them in a long time.

2) You miss me?
-Self explanatory, if you have to ask if some one misses you, then clearly they don't... and all that thirsty, digging for attention, emotion bs.. save it.

3) The "Numeric Page" 
-ugh!! a numeric page is a text message that is sent to someones phone once you have called them, reached voicemail and selected the page option. the text says please call ###-###-####. ...  you called me 4 times, I sent it vm & now you page me!...foolery

4) Fw: fwd: forward
-Dude seriously... eff you and you chain text. I'm not sending anything to anyone in any matter of time.. nor do i care about your guest list or free b4 10:30pm..

5) You cant text me back?
- i might be busy, annoyed, sleep, or don't feel like being bothered... with you. & why so sensitive? -> "Oh! So u can tweet, but u cant text me back?"

6) Hello?
-This text usually comes along sometime after you are either having a convo and stop replying... or someone text you and you take to long to reply. #stopbuggin

7) Unrequested Picture messages
-Referring to those picture messages that some random person sends you... even tho you did not ask for them... smh. Just because you send me a picture doesn't mean I'll send you one back.

......for more foolery check out twitter's trending  #textthatgetnoreply

Latest 4rm NeefFresh!!

This is my most recent photo 4rm the oh-so Talented @NeefFresh

Love love love her work and I feel so luckly to have shot w/ her

and also have a new found friend.... she's truly 1 of the REALIST people I have

ever met... check out more of her work on her model mayhem modelmayhem.com/neeffresh.

or follow greatness via her twitter @NeefFresh

...tnx Neef ,, p.s bring your ass back to LA we miss you. xoxo

Candid...

BET after party...
cant remember which party. #blameitonthegoose
=) xoxo

... me & jojo (a few drinks later)

Popular Nerd

Nerds are the new "Cool"....

a Model Mayhem...

For any1 who may have missed it...
-even tho I am shamefully late on posting this...
Here are a few photos from my most recent photo shoot w/ the Freshest! herself... @NEEFFRESH

& a couple behind the scene's N things.. .. .

for more of NEEF FRESH's work click here: NEEFFRESH

To: Mommy's w/ ♥....

Happy Mothers Day♥


-- I'm blessed to have 2 mommy's. 
most of you know I was adopted when i was 3, by Patricia..... (my mommy) & I ♥ her w/ all my heart.
1 week b4 my 21st B-day. ..I was "found" by my younger sister (which i had no clue I had) of my birth mother... which led up to me meeting my birth mother Vanity. LONG story short... a good year & some change later I'm blessed to be able to tell both of my "super hero" mothers HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!.. 
   


Just wanted 2 share.. I guess now I have to fill you all in on the adoption story...
another blog, for another day. xO 

TinyTakeova

http://tinychat.com/BADxGIRLSxCLUB

Murder of the week.....

hhmm "Kill" or be killed?

Under the Knife...

Well sort of...

actually i went under the clippers...

Asymmetrical cut on the right side, going diagonally across

the left... w/ full curls layered down the left side.

*Now a soon as I find my bf (Harvey) i'll add some designs maybe

some swirly patterns & stars in the back!

-Stay Tuned- 

{cartoon editing}

Murder of the week.....

Who did you "Kill" this week?

Angel 4 Sale...

ATTENTION!!

this little angel is 4 sale.

female puppy only a few months old.

needs love and a bath =)

*& maybe a trip 2 petco*

wont get any bigger than this.

lives in a auto parts shop.

(the people found her and took her off the street, but its 2 much work for them 2 keep her)

$50.00 obo

-share your love-

hit me & ill run you the details to where you can adopt her. 

Murder of the week.....

Are you "Killin" this week?

Gone Bitchie...

I love, love, love @Necolebitchie , & her blog is sooo dope.

her whole writing style & creativity is just real. 

I found this picture of myself (right) that reminded me of a photo Necole

had on her twitter background, so I put the 2 together and twitpic'd. 

Pow! she wrote back "love it" & my day was officially made.

 

I just started my blog, & i want to keep it as a personal blog about myself

& whatever is going on in my world... but she (Necole) is definitely a motivation

as far as a role model in life, a positive person & writer.

check her out on twitter @NecoleBitchie

& also check out her daily celeb blog at necolebitchie.com

Color Me...

Colors are beautiful...

have fun sometimes.

Usually i'm more dark, blk, & grey.

but every once in a while i'm

in a colorful mood.

Color

Me

Bad!

 

Trip 2 Wonderland...

Of course i went to see this movie.

i remember watching this when i was young,

i was so in love w/ the colors and everything so yeah

the 2010 movie version was a must see 4 me

I was only pissed about the fact that I couldn't 

see it sooner, but woo hoo!

The colors, duke the colors!!

oh & the theatrics! dope.

but...but!

it is like a must that this movie is seen in 

3D!

i mean seriously 2D just isn't cutting it this time.

takes away all the cool points LoL

"Off w/ her HEAD!"

(snapshots bellow)

 

p.s: thatz me & the homie cash...