Bestfriend vs Boyfriend...

UUGGGHH!
- A girl and a guy can't be "bestfriends"...
- oh yo bestfriend huh? mmhmm
- when yall break up? how long yall was together?

HEARD IT ALL!
This has been and I am convinced will be an ongoing headache!
It never fails... I always get the 3rd degree or some shxt about my bestfriend. Not only do I hear it because he's a boy.. and in the relationship world that shxt just doesn't fly 99% of the time. On top of that I have a tattoo of his name on my ankle. (adding gas to the fire) It's no secret me and my bf are close, and we have always been that way since we were young.. i really don't find any difference between our friendship than i do w/ my female bestfriend other than gender.  


-Bestfriend-
The one that gives you thier shoulder to lean on, laughs at and with you, lifts you up when your down, supporter. ..I went to the shop and got his name tattooed on my ankle at my own free will. No one held a gun to my head.. i didn't lose a bet or any of that other bs... nor did I ask him to get mines.. I love my bestfriend.  He got me through some days where had he not been there 4 me, i really can't say what i would have done,... or where i would have ended up.. I thank God to have had such a good friend when i was so young & still the friend ship remains.. 

                                                       VS.


-Boyfriend-
Your like, your love, your interest and supporter, friend, lover, and heart... Of course no man is going to jump for joy about seeing another mans name on his girl. OK i get that.. i understand that, but what i don't understand is the lack of trust that goes behind it.
Or more than that the whole need to measure up to "his" standards. If I'm with you I'm with you.. had I wanted to be with "him" I'm sure it would have happened by now.

                                                      =Equals=


-Headache-
1) ok so you love him.. you say you love me but you don't have my name tatted.
2) get it covered.
3) If yall were just bestfriends, why you get it in the 1st place?
4) I don't like him "you don't know him" I don't need to know him.
..... .. ... . & all the other bs!


-Resolution-
it all falls down to TRUST, if you trust that there is nothing more between the two friends that just that. A friendship.. then the issue should be solved just that simple.
I know sometimes you have a girl who's "bf" happens to be her ex and vise versa, so i can't say I blame dudes for being suspect but damn... I mean don't play yourself, if you know they more then some damn friends then stick around a bee bozo the clown if you want to...