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8.27.2010

Black Authors Expo...

I recently attended the black authors expo. I went as a guest of my mom's... yep mom wrote a book .. but you all knew that already. In case you didn't the book is titled "Reflections of a quiet storm". It's a christian fiction novel.. based on true events. Quick read and very relate able. I'm proud of my mom,, she is also working on her 2nd novel.... stay tuned.
























8.09.2010

unSmize...


Smh...
recently I did a photo shoot w/ this photographer  (& I think I'll use that term loosely) and all I can say is Jesus wept...Definitely was not doing any smizing (smiling w/ my eyes) on this shoot whatsoever.

It's true when you have a attitude or some type of distraction while shooting it WILL always show in your photos.. words to the wise: no matter what or whomever may have you pissed off or put you in a bad mood while on set.. take a min, clear your thoughts and move on. The last thing you want are weak shots after a long days work. Christian (bf) once told me "A negative
moment will only last so long, but a photo can last 4ever." .. very true Chris.. to sum it up, dont let your temporary attitude fxckup you lifetime image.

ultimately this shot had potential to be so much more, but in my eyes it's just "ohk" #Kanyeshrug

8.08.2010

Members Only...

The term "Mile High Club" refers to two people engaging in sexual activity (sexual intercourse) at an altitude of no less than 5,280 ft (a mile high above the earth) in an airplane.



This is funny to me because 1 night Jojo was on the phone w/ _____ & he asked her: "are you a member of the mile high club?" both me and her were oblivious..Lol thinking it was some rich members only type shxt... (embarrassed face) so once he explained what it actually was we both fell out laughing.. and no neither of us are "members"....yet.  :-D  

Lqi. (Laughing Quietly Inside)
yeah members only is right... I wonder how many of my homies
are members of "exclusive club" ? (no judgement) To my surprise there are actually rules to follow as a member and they have a whole site for info, stories, & a how to join instructional video... interesting.
check it out: http://www.milehighclub.com/

I will say this.. 1st off, you have 2 be comfortable w/ your sexuality.. I mean overall straight up and down into it to sneak off to a bathroom or secluded row or.. whatever in a plane amongst total strangers and have sex 2nd, be willing to go 2 jail or probably get some type of fine if caught because i'm sure it's illegal. 3rd trust whomever, or persons your engaging in initiation with..


Would I?....
perhaps.

8.01.2010

Bestfriend vs Boyfriend...

UUGGGHH!
- A girl and a guy can't be "bestfriends"...
- oh yo bestfriend huh? mmhmm
- when yall break up? how long yall was together?

HEARD IT ALL!
This has been and I am convinced will be an ongoing headache!
It never fails... I always get the 3rd degree or some shxt about my bestfriend. Not only do I hear it because he's a boy.. and in the relationship world that shxt just doesn't fly 99% of the time. On top of that I have a tattoo of his name on my ankle. (adding gas to the fire) It's no secret me and my bf are close, and we have always been that way since we were young.. i really don't find any difference between our friendship than i do w/ my female bestfriend other than gender.  


-Bestfriend-
The one that gives you thier shoulder to lean on, laughs at and with you, lifts you up when your down, supporter. ..I went to the shop and got his name tattooed on my ankle at my own free will. No one held a gun to my head.. i didn't lose a bet or any of that other bs... nor did I ask him to get mines.. I love my bestfriend.  He got me through some days where had he not been there 4 me, i really can't say what i would have done,... or where i would have ended up.. I thank God to have had such a good friend when i was so young & still the friend ship remains.. 

                                                       VS.


-Boyfriend-
Your like, your love, your interest and supporter, friend, lover, and heart... Of course no man is going to jump for joy about seeing another mans name on his girl. OK i get that.. i understand that, but what i don't understand is the lack of trust that goes behind it.
Or more than that the whole need to measure up to "his" standards. If I'm with you I'm with you.. had I wanted to be with "him" I'm sure it would have happened by now.

                                                      =Equals=


-Headache-
1) ok so you love him.. you say you love me but you don't have my name tatted.
2) get it covered.
3) If yall were just bestfriends, why you get it in the 1st place?
4) I don't like him "you don't know him" I don't need to know him.
..... .. ... . & all the other bs!


-Resolution-
it all falls down to TRUST, if you trust that there is nothing more between the two friends that just that. A friendship.. then the issue should be solved just that simple.
I know sometimes you have a girl who's "bf" happens to be her ex and vise versa, so i can't say I blame dudes for being suspect but damn... I mean don't play yourself, if you know they more then some damn friends then stick around a bee bozo the clown if you want to...